Showing posts with label Spiritual Formation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Spiritual Formation. Show all posts

Saturday, August 11, 2012

The dry soul


Since this April, I have diligently pursued the spiritual disiciplines.  Since then, I have noticed a difference in my walk with God.   I have gained much more insight into many areas of faith. My latest writing project, The  Faith Matrix, my workbook  Prayer- the Adventure,  as well as my course on spiritual disciplines have all grown out of this interest.   God continues to open up new ideas in this area, and I hope soon to write about ideas that may tie it all together. 
One thing I am finding, though is  that spiritual disciplines are not easy.  Just as your body gets tired from exercise, and your mind gets tired from study, your spirit can get tired from  seeking God. The spiritual life is no bed of roses.  It involves a lot of down and dirty wrestling with sin,  judgementalism,  impure motives, and a host of other problems.
There's a famous painting called The Temptation of St Andrew. He was one of the first hermits  in church history.  He's sitting on a rock praying, and all around him are hosts of devils of every kind, trying to tear him away. I haven't been a hermit,  but even  at home, trying to pray, I have experienced a few of their brothers bothering me. 
The hardest part prayer is when you seek some experience of God, and come up dry. Some times He seems to be right at your shoulder. Other times,  your prayers seem to be careening off the ceiling. 
I try to think of what to do. Maybe I should get my guitar and sing. Maybe I should just read more, pray harder,  study a little deeper, get quieter, etc.  But none of this works. There seems to be nothing I can do.  Nothing.
As unpleasant as it is to be separated from the feeling of God,  though, there is one good part.  When I realize that there is nothing I can do, I also realize that there is nothing I need to do.  We are not promised heavenly bliss all the time, nor that we will have ecstatic experiences. If it  happens,  then good. If not--well, so what?
The greatest danger in these dry spells is losing our focus. My focus shouldn't be on what feels right, but on what is right.  Faith is not in a feeling, it's in God.  Sometimes  God takes away the feeling so I can learn to trust Him.  
When my kids were younger, we'd go on a trip, and they would pepper me with questions.  "How much farther?" they would ask.  "Where are we now?" I'd give them the road atlas.  "What state is this?" they would say.
I don't blame them for being curious, but after a while, it could be annoying.  I would want to shout to the back seat  "If you're not driving, you don't need to know!"    If God is in control of my life, then why do I need to know what happens next?   Could it be that I don't fully trust him?   I want constant reassurance because My faith is not what it should.  The only way it can improve is to sit back and allow God to reveal Himself when and how He wants to.  He knows my need for His presence and He will show Himself when I need it. 
Even when I am a dry soul, I'm God's.  Even when I don't feel Him, I can believe  in  Him.  The feelings may come later.  I can trust Him today. 

Friday, June 29, 2012

Sheep Feeding


I came across a quote from C S Lewis' book Letters to Malcolm in Richard Foster's book on prayer  "Jesus told Peter,  'feed my sheep,' not 'try experiments on my lab rats.'"
How true!  Pastors often forget what a pastor is. Basically, we are keepers of the sheep. 
We are called to feed them, care for them,  help them.  We are not called upon to drive them like a team of horses,  or experiment on them like guinea pigs, or to use them as fertilizer by a leader to grow a church.  We are called to care for the sheep God has given us.
Pastors frequently come down with the disease of "holy ambition."  I say "holy" because that is how Christians leader typically excuse their own ambition.  If we want a bigger church,  we can justify it as winning the lost.  If we want a big career with lots of followers, we can justify it as utilizing our gifts.  If we want to remake the church as images of our own egocentric vision, we are just fulfilling our call.  It's easy for us assume that the people we serve exist for the purpose of serving our purposes and not theirs.
But Jesus didn't call us to feed sheep.  To me, that means two things.
First we are called to acknowledge that the people we serve in our churches are  our flock, and not our servants.
Suppose you had a dog, but you decided you wanted cat.  You could staple whiskers on him, stick him in a tree, and teach him to say "meow"  it would not be a cat. It is by nature a dog. 
No amount of training will make lambs into lions.  Only God can do that.
Sheep do not have a purpose in life beyond being sheep. They will give their wool, but they are not treated like cattle or hunting dogs.  Most of all to be left alone in green pastures and still waters.
But what about the Great Commission (some will say)?  Jesus called us to go into the world and make disciples--that is, sheep of Jesus.  The Great Commission is not a call to build our own kingdoms, but to introduce people to the true, good Shepherd.  Church leaders will seldom lay down their lives for the sheep, but often leave the flock at the first hint that things may not go their way.  But the Good shepherd lays down His life for the sheep, whether or not they do what He says.  He doesn't leave because some bigger flock is calling. 
Second, our job is to feed them that means to preach, teach, minister, and visit for their benefit, not for the benefit of others.
If we want to know what sheep need, look in the Bible.    In  Psalm 23, one of God's sheep lets us know what the Good Shepherd ought to do.
  • I shall not want--The shepherd has my needs and wants in mind.  I have security,  knowing that the shepherd is doing his best to provide my needs and wants.
  • He leads me in green pastures and still waters--the food he gives is pleasant and easily accessible. I don't have to work hard to get it.  He lays it out clearly and easily.
  • He leads me in righteousness--He keeps me from straying the wrong way.  He doesn't let me go to far up the mountain, so I  lose my fooding, nor does he let me stray into the valley, where I can be devoured, but he keeps me on the straight an d narrow.  Step by step, he shows me the right path through life.
  • He keeps me from fear--when I am in scary places in life,  He walks with me.  He doesn't take the danger from me, but he defends me and comforts me when I am in danger.
  • He assists in my healing.  Anointing oil is medicine. Is presence is medicine to me,  and comforts me in trouble. 
  • He uses his rod and staff.  He's not always gentle, but if I need it, he can give me a lashing.  More often, though he draws me back from danger, not drives me away.
  • He stands with me in danger.  He recognizes that I live in a dangerous world, but he teaches me not to be afraid.  Instead, gives me valuable advice to sustain me in the rough patches of life.
  • He takes me to my final destination. Nothing about the journey matters if I wind up in the wrong place.  Thanks to the Shepherd, I am going to make it home safely.  That’s what shepherds are for.
Feed God's sheep. Don't drive them, don't beat them, don't use them. Let God take care of them, they way He takes care of you. 

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

A Fat Boy's Guide to Fasting


I'm getting ready to teach on spiritual disciplines, so I have been studying on their meaning and practice.  The third most mentioned of the spiritual disciplines, behind prayer and Bible study, is fasting. 
Personally I hesitate to  teach on it.  After all, what does a fat boy know about fasting?  I'm beginning to think that the only people who understand what fasting really is or can be are fat people.  We understand food, and its seductive appeal better than anyone else. 
 A great deal is written about fasting. Nevertheless , it is the least practiced of them all.
There is a lot about fasting in the Bible and in church history.  Jesus spoke about it in the Sermon on the Mount.  What He wrote seemed to be  saying that He expected us to do it,  and not just occasionally,  but regularly.
Some have argued that Christians don't need to fast. They argue this on the basis of a comment Jesus made when his enemies challenged his disciples for not fasting.  "When the bridegroom is with you, you don't fast."  In other words,  who fasts at a party?  That doesn't mean we don't fast the rest of the time.
First of all, I want to dismiss some of the mistaken ideas about fasting. 
Many in the church have been taught about fasting as a kind of "super prayer."  If you don't get an answer from  God by simply asking Him, then we go on a hunger strike until we get it.  Not only does it sound irrational, it doesn't even seem Christian.  Is God like some prison guard who has to make concessions?  Yet this idea of fasting is common among us.
Another misconception is that we go on fasts to gain some kind of deeper spirituality.  We don't think we're deep enough spiritually, so we go on a fast so that we can hear God's will better.  Again, why?  Why not just hop on one foot for an hour to gain spiritual enlightenment? 
Another misconception about fasting is that it is a form of showing how sorry we are for our sins.  Again,  this does not seem rational.  If people starve themselves in our modern culture to show grief, then why do we bring so many cakes and pies to people's houses when they lose a loved one?  It seems to me we should be taking food out of their house, if starvation is a form of grief.    It may be for some people, but not for most of us.
No, fasting is most important for our lives,  perhaps vitally important, but for none of the reasons we think it is.  I am becoming increasingly convinced that we must fast, and fast on a regular basis.  But the reason for it is much simpler than any of these--we fast because we are addicted to indulgence.  We depend upon worldly necessities and pleasures to get us through the day.  The only way we can depend upon God is to stop thinking of food, and other pleasures as so necessary to us.  That can only come when we voluntarily go without them.  We buffet our bodies  (that's in the discipline sense, not the all-you-can-eat restaurant sense)  for the purpose of showing our bodies who is in charge.   Our addiction to fleshly desire is our ruin. We don't follow God, because it affects our compulsion to eat and eat well.
Let me give you an example.  A friend of mine had recently become a Christian.  His occupation was driving a beer truck.  I won't argue whether or not it's unchristian to drive a beer truck, but in his mind it was. Nevertheless, he kept driving it.  His reason  "A man's gotta eat."  
True enough. But what if we didn't.  Suppose we could live on a lot less than we think we could.  Suppose we discovered that we could live on thirty dollars worth of groceries a week, instead of a hundred. Think what that would free up for us.  We could do what we wanted,  take whatever job we wished, because we were freed from the necessity of supporting our self-indulgence habit.  We could drop out of our job, start a church or an orphanage, or just spend more time in prayer and fellowship.  Freed up from the necessity of a full-time job we hated, we could do what we wanted. There would be sacrifices, of course, but so what?  We'd be giving up minor pleasures, but we would be gaining major ones.
Yet faced with the prospect of giving up desserts or television or chocolate, our minds go into panic mode. We behave like heroin addicts on the prowl for another fix.  I saw one T shirt which said "Just give me the chocolate, and no one will get hurt!"   We, especially we obese folk,  are not far from that.  That's why fasting scares us.
Fasting is simply the realization that if we are to practice positive disciplines such as prayer, quiet times,  and exercise  with regularity and zeal, then we must also practice the negative disciplines of fasting,  simplicity, and  dieting.  We cannot be in control of our positive actions while allowing other portions of us such as our  physical hunger,  to act like a spoiled brat, throwing tantrums and demanding whatever it wants. 
It's not just hunger, it's all our appetites.  Why do otherwise intelligent men and women get caught in stupid sexual sins?  Why do some people feel compelled to take on crippling debt over a slick car or massive home, when common sense would say they did not need them?  It is because we can no longer tell the difference between our needs and our wants.
Fasting is a spiritual discipline that teaches us to say "no" to our appetites.  Like Sabbath keeping and tithing, the real power of it is to teach us what we do not need,  and to let us know what we do need.  It is our way of saying to our bodies that they are not in charge.
Seen in this way, fasting is a tremendous boon to our spiritual lives.  But occasional fasting will not do this, only regular fasting.  Regular fasting is establishing regular rhythms of eating and not eating for the purpose of learning that with God's help we can do anything. 

Thursday, April 26, 2012

The Best Use of Time


I've been reading  Donald Whitner's book Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life.  Overall, It's  a very good book, and I would recommend it.  However, as with any book provokes thought, there are times  when I want to take issue with it.  This morning was one of those times.
This morning he was talking about stewardship as a spiritual discipline.  A very good and astute observation.  Discipline is what disciples do, and stewardship is one of the disciplines that we are definitely called to do.  Whitner talks about stewardship mainly in terms of time and money.  I have no problem with what he says about money, but the time part, I think requires some further thinking.
The argument he makes  is that as Christians we ought to  make the most of our time,  use every bit of it to God's glory.   He uses the well-known verses from Ephesians 5:15-16  "Be very careful, then, how you live-not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. "
Okay, okay, I get  it.  We are a nation of lazy time-wasters.  Telling people in our television-soaked society  to quit wasting time is like telling fat people that they should stop eating.  It's just too easy.  Of course we waste time at times. But if we worried every minute whether or not we were wasting time,  we would all be nervous wrecks.   What Whitner means, of course is that we waste time not doing the Lord's work, and he is right, of course. We could all do more for Him.  But it does disturb me that the disciplines that we preachers preach about most are the ones that benefit us the most.  We preach about people evangelizing, and our churches get bigger.  We preach about tithing and our churches get richer. We preach about redeeming the time and --well, you get the idea.  Meanwhile,  the spiritual disciplines which do not benefit the church quite so much,  prayer and fasting for example, or meditation, simplicity, and solitude, get less attention.
I have a problem with the way Ephesians 5  is interpreted.  Paul is not saying that days are evil.  Time is neither good nor evil.  It's how you use it.  The evil days that Paul mentions are evil because of what men were doing in them. 
Paul's day was evil, at least for the majority of humankind.  Life was  mean and short for most people.  A third of the world was in slavery, most of the rest were subsistence farmers.    It was a mean cruel time to be alive.  Paul is telling us to make the most of the time we have, to savor the moments we have, not to waste them in meaningless drudgery or pointless semi-pleasures.  Drunkenness is not fun, not really,  neither are sexual pleasures which steal our souls and give nothing in return. 
Contrast this with Ecclesiastes 2:24-26
 "A man can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in his work. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment?  To the man who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness, but to the sinner he gives the task of gathering and storing up wealth to hand it over to the one who pleases God. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind. "
When we eat and drink, and find satisfaction in our work,  we are not wasting time.  In fact, according to Ecclesiastes, it is the only time we are not. 
Here's the thing.  We Christians, especially those of us weaned on the Calvinist work ethic, have somehow got the impression that an idle moment is a wasted moment. We were created to work, work,work.
But we were also created to enjoy the world He gave us.  Time and the world around us have value, even if they are not used "productively."  A moment closing our eyes, enjoying the wind on our faces, or listening to the singing of birds and the laughter of children, is not wasted.  Neither is a prayer wasted when we are not asking God for anything, nor are we wasting paint to paint a picture of a sunrise. These moments have intrinsic value in themselves, and need no excuse. 
In my fifty-eight years of life,  I have "wasted" a great deal of tiem. Some of it I am sorry for, Some of it I am not.  I do not regret a moment that I have enjoyed.  I do regret many moments of worry and regret over the things I have not done. 
It seems to me that the real  use of time is to enjoy God, not to work  out of drudgery and duty.  Time is not for using,  but for enjoying.  Living now, in the moment,  is how we glorify God and enjoy Him forever. 
Some time ago, when I was going through a difficult time in my life,  a friend of mine gave me a little book called The Precious Present  about a man who sought to find the the greatest present ever given.  In the end, he discovered that the most precious present was--the precious present.  It is now. 
If we really seek God, and want do to His will, and if we realize the value of our moments and days,  then we will not waste time. We will not want to waste time,  because doing the worthwhile thing  will be our joy, and we will find satisfaction in our work.
Some people hate their jobs.  They watch the clock all day,  waiting for the moment they can go home. Other people love their job. The moment's fly by and they look forward to going back to work,  resting  only to satisfy their bodies  long enough to get back into it. 
Some people see serving God as a duty.  They give Him what they must, but watch the clock and wait for the time when they can get back to their "real" jobs.  Other people find satisfaction in serving God,  and cannot wait for more opportunities to do it.  The stewardship of time is a natural result of understanding our relationship to Him.  If we enjoy doing what God wants us to do, it is not a burden. 
I once had  friend who was doing seven jobs in the church.  I called him on it,  suggesting that more people should be working, and that he needed more time off.  He laughed and put his arm around me.  "Bill," he said,  "Some men play golf. Others fish,  others garden. That their hobby.  My hobby is church work.  Don't take my hobby from me."
If our heart is in the Lord, then serving Him is joy.   We don't have to be told to do it.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Meat and Milk: Spiritual formation in Mature Believers, Part 3


The Function of Faith
So how do we maintain spiritual health throughout our lives, in the face of opposition?
Faith is the key—not an idle or casual faith, the kind Bonheoffer called “cheap grace,” but faith that is foundational to our existence, our reason to be.  If we are to grow past the point of spiritual reproduction, we must grow in our experience of Christ through faith.
Faith performs eight basic functions:
  1. intellectual challenge;
  1. emotional engagement;
  1. behavioral reinforcement
  1. supportive relationships;
  1. higher authority;
  1. life interpretation;
  1. connection to history;
  1. and a realistic hope.

A healthy faith system will involve all eight of these functions in a consistent, interrelated whole.  Many people, believer and nonbeliever alike, derive these eight functions from more than one source.  They may, for example, intellectually accept the doctrines of Christianity, but receive their emotional engagement from music, sports or entertainment.  They might experience an emotional high, but separate their faith from their intellectual life, becoming emotionally Christian, but intellectually brain dead.  Or to give another example, they may seek their community in worldly friendships, while going through the motions of Christian ritual.  When these eight functions are divided, we become practical polytheists, looking to a pantheon of worldly gods to cover up the deficiencies in our relationship to the true God.  Sooner or later, however, we will discover we cannot serve two masters.  In a time of crisis, divided faith cannot stand.
Let us look at these eight tasks of faith one by one.

(1)Intellectual challenge.
  There is a mistaken assumption that just listening to preaching or going to Sunday school will give the mature Christian all the spiritual answers he or she needs.  We may have the answers, but the questions keep coming.  If we rely on simplified versions of spiritual answers, and do not exercise our minds, we will be ill equipped to respond to the new situations life constantly puts before us.
Not all Christians are intellectuals, but all Christians are sometimes expected to justify and rejustify what they know to be true.  Every mature believer should be challenged to understand theological issues and have a comprehensive knowledge of the Bible.  Without these, the mature believer becomes ineffective in his own self-examination and in discerning how to counsel others.  Most Sunday schools and cell groups are not intended for this kind of study but for fellowship, worship, and many other things.  Christian churches need to rethink their curricula when it comes to the needs of mature believers.

(2) Emotional Engagement
David Goleman in his book Emotional Intelligence points out that emotional sensitivity rather than intellectual abilities are the best predictors of success.[22]  Goleman writes that the portion of the brain governing our emotions is much larger than the portion devoted to reason, that the path from the intellect to the emotion is like a cow path while the path from the emotions to the intellect is like a four lane highway.[23]  The heart influences the head more than the head influences the heart.  It does little good to strengthen our faith intellectually unless we concurrently deepen our passion for God.  Just as a relationship between a husband and wife becomes complacent, so does our relationship with Christ.  We need to be challenged to deepen our emotions toward God, just as we must with our spouses.
One only has to read the writings of the great intellectuals of the faith such as Luther, Calvin, the Puritans, St. Augustine, and St. Thomas Aquinas to see that these men were as passionate in their writings on God as the wildest Pentecostal or Charismatic.  The deeper our emotional attachment the greater our intellectual understanding is likely to become.

(3) Behavioral reinforcement. 
Perhaps the greatest contribution behavioral psychology has given to the world is to demonstrate the link between action and emotion.  We do not just smile when we are happy; smiling makes us happy.  We do not just react angrily when we are upset; shouting gets us more upset.  The things we do and the rituals we follow reinforce our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.  The church’s emphasis on the “means of grace” helps us to deepen and enhance our relationship to God.  As James wrote “faith without works is dead.”[25]  Inward faith without outward behavior quickly disappears.   
Behavioral reinforcement of spiritual beliefs take three forms—inner disciplines, outer rituals, and the practice of a Christian lifestyle.
Inner disciplines include prayer, fasting, Bible study, confessing, meditating, praising, and silence.  Donald Whitner says “God’s people have always been a spiritual people.  . . . I have never known a man or woman who came to spiritual maturity except through spiritual discipline.”[27]
Outer rituals are practiced publicly in God’s house among God’s people.  The early church devised a wide variety of corporate disciplines—morning prayers, evening prayers, regular times of fasting, the Eucharist, confession, weekly worship, prayers before meals, family devotions, liturgy, litanies, and benedictions.  They enable us to fulfill the Scriptural command to “pray without ceasing”—not prayer every moment of every day, but prayer regularly performed throughout the days, weeks, and years.
Rituals and spiritual disciplines though are meaningless without a Christian lifestyle.  A Christian lifestyle is not defined so much by what we do not do, but by what we do.  Refraining from sexual immorality, intoxicants, gluttony, greed and sloth may fulfill the commandments of the Old Covenant, but it does not rise to the level of the New.  Loving others, feeding the poor, sharing our faith, showing compassion for our neighbor and turning the other cheek are the heavier duties that Christ called His disciples to perform.  Ethical Christian behavior is absolutely necessary for Christian maturity.

(4) Supportive Relationships
If there is one overwhelming deficiency in our cybernetic world, it is for intimate community.  We need a community that stirs us each to deeper spiritual expression.  Mature believers need to be with people who can nourish and encourage them while they in turn encourage others.  As Bonheoffer famously said, “Let him who cannot be alone beware of community. . . . Let him who cannot be in community beware of being alone.”[28]
Being in a church, even serving in a church, is not the same as being in community.  Many of us serve on boards and committees so pointless and soporific that St. Peter himself would no doubt repeat his weakness at Gethsemane and once again fall asleep.  Churches are often the worst place to discuss struggles.  Even in churches with a well-functioning small group ministry, only a portion of the church are involved in small groups.

(5) Life interpretation
Faith equips us to interpret our life story.  Whether our lives are on an upward slope or a downward slide depends entirely on which direction is up or down.  Whether our history is the work of a benevolent God working all things for good or whether it is a random accident determines our life course in the future.
The only way to know and interpret our story is to tell that story.  We must put it into words.  The simple act of talking or writing about events helps us to come to terms with them.
In 1 Samuel 7:12, after God routed a Philistine army bent on Israel’s destruction, the people of Israel erected a stone monument to the occasion, calling it “Ebenezer”—“thus far has the Lord helped us.”  A testimony is a similar memorial in our hearts, reminding us of the goodness of God in the past, which He has promised will continue in the future.  Mature believers should be encouraged to remember their personal past, so they may remain steady in the future.

(6) Connection to history.
The church that ignores the past also cuts itself off from the present.  The church may be faithful to the Scriptures (which is a product of the past), but its understanding has become disconnected and disjointed from the great thinkers of the past.  It need not hide from history by concealing denominational connections, or throwing out every tradition.  Believers need to understand their roots so they can understand where they belong.
We stand on the shoulders of giants, Sir Isaac Newton once famously observed. Connecting to history is a primary task of faith.  We need to understand how we fit into the historic continuum.  History assures us of our place in the universe.
Older believers are often upset by the rapid change in society.  We should not be—change is a part of life.  But if change does not help us reinterpret the past, it will be involuntary and unwelcome.  Taking time to provide mature believers with a historical perspective will make change more palatable and manageable.

(7) Unquestioned authority
For us to build and maintain a personal world view, we must have some authority we deem to be true.  Faith gives us something to believe and follow without question or compromise.
The rapid decline of the mainline church is not due to its unwillingness to change, but to its denial of its past authority.  The church must stand firm on what it believes, and stick by it.
The real issue is not authority so much as submission.  Christ gave us an example of voluntary submission.  He submitted Himself to the Father willingly and joyfully.  He submitted out of love.  Paul submitted himself to the corrupt authorities of the Roman empire and the Jewish establishment by choice, not by force.  In Romans 13, he encouraged Christians to submit to the Roman empire out of choice.
It is counter intuitive but nevertheless accurate to say that only unquestioned authority allows us to freely pursue what is greatest in life.  Scientists cannot do research without believing in empirical evidence.  A high court cannot question the standards of a lower court without some basis in constitutional law.  A grammarian cannot grade papers unless she regards dictionaries and grammar textbooks as authoritative.  The constitution may need changing and grammar textbooks may need to be rewritten, but until they are we need them.  We could not function without authoritative standards.  A church which does not speak with authority cannot provide a solid foundation for individual faith development in its members.

(8) A realistic hope.

The eighth work of faith is to assure us of a worthwhile future, making the struggles and privations of this world capable of being borne.  Without positive hope, positive change is not possible.  If we cannot expect a positive outcome for our labors, we will cease to labor.
Hope does not have to be a positive outcome for us personally.  A terrorist may blow himself up out of hope for seventy virgins in heaven, or he may do it out of hope of starting a political movement that will usher in a new Communist state.  A philanthropist may give money to be rewarded in heaven, or to make the future world better.  Either way, we do what we do for hope of something better.
For Christians to be balanced and healthy spiritually, we must take into consideration all eight of these works of faith in our lives.  As a church, we must make sure to meet these needs and to equip Christians to meet these needs for themselves.  If we want the church to be healthy, then believers of all stages—new, young, and old,—must be equipped for a lifetime of Spiritual growth and development.

Summary
The track of an individual Christian’s spiritual life is unique, but there are common stages along the way.  Seekers are new believers, who have just come to trust Jesus.  Learners or catechumens are those who are developing as believers, discovering their spiritual gifts, and discovering God’s direction for their lives.  Mature believers are Christians who have a sense of God’s vision for their lives, and are seeking to follow Him in a complicated, challenging world.
Historically the evangelical church has done a better job with the discipleship of new believers than they have with maintaining the spiritual health of mature ones.  By treating all believers the same, the church may either fail to reach new people, or sustain the old ones.  Christian discipleship programs aimed at leading new believers into maturity leave the mature believer desiring more.
Mature believers need to be challenged to go deeper into the faith, instead of repeating the same teachings again and again.  This challenge needs to come through eight aspects of faith—intellectual challenge, emotional expression, rituals and habits, intimate community, life interpretation, a connection to history, definite authority, and a realistic hope.
Clearly, maintaining our spiritual lives in maturity cannot be forced from without; it must be pursued individually with all zeal.  Nevertheless, the church must provide opportunities for continued spiritual growth, while not forsaking the lost, or ignoring the discipleship of the young.  The church must have a multi-leveled approach to discipleship.  Though this may be difficult, with God’s grace and the Spirit’s help it can be done.

[1] I John 2:12-15.  All Biblical quotations will be from the NIV unless otherwise noted.)
[2] I John 2:1,2:28,  3:18, 4:4, and 5:21.
[3] Jameson, Faucett, and Brown Commentary, electronic database, copyright 1997 by Biblesoft.
[4] (Biblesoft's New Exhaustive Strong's Numbers and Concordance with Expanded Greek-Hebrew Dictionary. Copyright (c) 1994, Biblesoft and International Bible Translators, Inc.)
[5] Ibid.
[6] I Cor 3:1-4 NKJV
[7] Strongs, op. cit.
[8] Author, Mapping the Christian Life, (RevPress, Bilouxi, Mississsippi), 2008, pp.  ix-xi.
[9] Geoffrey J Cuming  Hippolytus:  A Text For Students: (Grove Books, LTD.,Bramcote, Nottingham,England,1987), p. 16.  
[10] Ibid.
[11] The Confessions of St. Augustine, trans. By E. M. Blaiklock, (Thomas Nelson,Nashville, Tnn.) 1986, pp. 220-221.
[12] Hipplolytus, p 18.
[13] This is the probable beginning of the tradition of Lent.
[14] Hippolytus, op. cit. p. 19.
[15] Ibid.
[16] Rick Warren, The Purpose Driven Church, (Zondervan, Grand Rapids, Mi.) 1995, p. 130.
[17] Adapted from Marks of a Disciple, by Lorne C. Sanny, © 1975 by The Navigators. The complete booklet is available from NavPress at: www.navpress.com
[19] Billygrahambookstore.org
[20] Matthew 28:19-20
[21] James Sire, Habits of the Mind (Intervarsity Press, Downers Grove, Ill) 2000, p. 27-28.
[22] Daniel Goleman Emotional Intelligence (Bantam Books, New York, 1997, p. 35.
[23] Ibid.  p. 19
[24] Peter Scazzero The Emotionally Healthy Church, (Zondervan, Grand Rapids, Mi.) 2003,  P. 19.
[25] James 2:20
[26] Richard Foster The Celebration of Discipline (Harper One, New York) 1978, p. 7. 
[27] Donald Whitner Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life (Navpress, Colorado Springs, Col.) 1991, p. 17.
[28] Dietrich Bonhoeffer Life Together (Harper & Row, New York) 1954, p. 77.
[29] Michael W. Foss Power Surge (Fortress Press, Minneapolis, Minn.) 2000, p. 146.
[30] C. S. Lewis Surprised by Joy (Harcourt, Brace, and Company, New York) 1955, p. 7.

Meat and Milk: Spiritual Formation in Mature Believers, Part 1


Note: this is an article I am completing for a lecture series at New Life Seminary called Voices of New Life.  I am putting it out on my blog to get comments and reactions.  Please feel free to read and comment on it.  I welcome your opinions.

Introduction
The Christian walk of the Spirit is not easy to define or track.  No two people ever have the same spiritual journey, nor do they arrive at the same place in exactly the same way or the same time.  Our individual faith journeys are as unique as fingerprints or snowflakes.  We follow unique trajectories like water drops over a curved glass.  Nevertheless, there are enough similarities of experience among Christian Believers that a general path of spiritual formation may be described.  We all start in carnality and flow heavenward, following the path of grace and redemption.  Our similarities make it possible to help one another along the way.
The purpose of this study is first to trace that track of spiritual maturity from initial conversion to spiritual maturity using Biblical, historical and contemporary patterns.  This author hopes to demonstrate that Christian discipleship is often ignored by the contemporary church, and when it is practiced it focuses only on the initial stages of Christian growth—milk, not meat.  Then we will attempt to develop a model of spirituality that will adjust to the changing challenges of living out a mature spirituality in an increasingly challenging world.  It is this author’s hope that this model will assist us all to continually grow and strengthen our relationship to God through a lifetime spiritual journey.

Biblical Stages of Christian maturity
The New Testament shows at least two passages which clearly indicate stages of Christian maturity.  One is found in 1 John 2:12-14.  John mentions three stages of the Believers’ lives—children, young men, and fathers.
12 I write to you, dear children, because your sins have been forgiven on account of his name.
13 I write to you, fathers, because you have known him who is from the beginning.
I write to you, young men, because you have overcome the evil one.
I write to you, dear children, because you have known the Father.
14 I write to you, fathers, because you have known him who is from the beginning.
I write to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God lives in you, and you have overcome the evil one.[1]

John repeats the phrase “I write to you” six times.  The use of “because” (hoti) may also be rendered “that,” which would suggest that what follows is not the reason he is writing, but the subject.  “I write to you that you have known the father.  .  .” and so forth.  John is writing these words as a reminder to the church of what they need to know in these particular stages of Christian maturity.
Children should know the Father and that He has forgiven their sins.  Young men should know that they have already overcome the Evil One, are strong, and have the Word of God.  Fathers should continue to remember the One they already known from the beginning of their spiritual walk.
In the first instance, John uses the word teknia for “little children,” a word which he uses in other places for all Christians.[2]  We all know the Father.  In the second instance, he uses paideia, which means “infants,” specifically referring to those who are new Christians.[3]
“Young men” in Greek is neaniskoi, which literally means “new men.”  Culturally it might be used for a man up to the age of forty, someone who has attained some aspects of maturity, but not others.  A young person is on the way to maturity, but not fully arrived.[4]
Neaniskoi have proven themselves strong in the faith.  They have overcome Satan and have the Word of God living in them.  However, their hardest days are ahead of them.  Only now are they beginning to understand how difficult the Christian walk can be in a world of temptation and hostility.
“Fathers” have reached both reproductive and emotional maturity.[5]  They are involved in some aspect Christian service.  They are capable of sharing their faith and discipling others.  They can bear the burdens of others, while bearing their own.  Even so, they have to be reminded to stay in a relationship with God.  The first truth is the last truth—fathers must know God, as they did when they were children.
Table 1.  Stages of Christian life, 1 John 2
Repentance
New Birth                                                                                      Eternity

Children
Young Men
Fathers

In 1 Corinthians 3:1-4 Paul refers to two stages of the Christian life.
Brothers, I could not address you as spiritual but as worldly—mere infants in Christ.  I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it.  Indeed, you are still not ready.  You are still worldly.  For since there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not worldly?  Are you not acting like mere men?  For when one says, “I follow Paul,” and another, “I follow Apollos,” are you not mere men?[6]

In this passage, the two kinds of Christians are carnal and spiritual.  The carnal, or “babes in Christ” in Greek are the neepioi—a term also used figuratively for the simple-minded or immature.[7]  These neepioi are contrasted with the pneumatikos, or “spiritual”, who are the mature believers whose orientation is towards the Spirit and away from self.
The carnal believer attempts to live in two worlds with two sets of values.  As a result, the carnal believer does not do justice to either.  The carnal believer knows Christ, and the central teachings of the Gospel, but the focus of the carnal believer is on himself or herself.  This leads to jealousy and strife within the church.
Paul describes the carnal believer as living on the milk of the Word, not the meat.  Spiritual “milk” refers to teaching designed for elementary believers, which would include the basics of salvation, rudimentary doctrine, and elementary instruction in spiritual disciplines and moral behavior.  The carnal believer is not ready for advanced doctrinal or theological instruction, for advanced teaching in prayer and fasting, or for dealing with ethical dilemmas beyond his understanding.
Milk is essentially predigested food.  Just as a mother breaks down complex proteins and carbohydrates into an easily digestible, uniform liquid for infants, so have teachers and preachers already done the hard work of study, interpretation, and application.  They break down complex doctrines, simplify Bible study, and smooth out thorny commandments into simple rules.  Spiritual milk is nourishing but incomplete, containing what infants need to survive, but not what young men and fathers need to maintain mature health.  In time, the carnal believer will grow tired of this, but only when she ceases being carnal and becomes spiritual.
The relationship between John’s stages and Paul’s stages may be seen in table 2 below.  John and Paul cover similar ground.  Both divide Christians into mature and immature groups.  Reliance upon God is the necessary knowledge that leads to maturity.
Table 2.  John’s and Paul’s stages of Christian life

Repentance
New Birth
Eternity
1 John 2
Children
Young Men
Fathers
1 Cor 3
Carnal   

Spiritual

In the book, Mapping the Christian Life, there is a similar division discerned from a study of the psalms of degrees—Psalms 120-134.  The book lays out five divisions of the Christian life.  The first three stages parallel the stages found in John and Paul.  They are Seekers, Servants, and Settlers.
The Seeker stage begins with disillusionment with the world.  Seekers have discovered that the world they have known is not what it appears.  Like Neo in the film The Matrix, they have begun a journey to look for something real.  Seekers lift their eyes to the hills seeking help. That help comes not from the hills, but the Lord.  This begins the Seekers’ journey to God.
The task for each stage may be summarized in one burning question which must be asked and answered.  For Seekers that question is—can I trust God?
The second stage is Servants.  Servants have undergone a reversal in thought and have realized that God is not their servant, but that they are God’s.  The servant must answer another question—how can I serve God?
Settlers are mature believers who have come to understand, after a process of discovery, calling, and equipping; what kind of service they are to render.  They have a general idea what course of service their lives will take.  Nevertheless, like the settlers of America discovered when they tried to shape a new world on a new continent, knowing what they are to do and doing it are not the same.  It is difficult serving God in hostile territory.  The settler must balance family, work, and faith, while fighting temptations that in the Servant stage he would not have thought possible.  The question that Settlers ask is—how do I build the Kingdom in the face of opposition?[8]
Looking at John and Paul’s stages, as well this pattern from the Psalms, we see a strong similarity, as we see in Chart 3.
Table 3.  Stages of Christian life adding Psalms pattern

Repentance
New Birth
Eternity
John
Children
Young Men
Fathers
Paul
Carnal

Spiritual
Psalm Pattern
Seeker
Servant
Settler
There is an initial stage of discovery, a stage of growth, and a stage of maturity.  Maturity is not a resting stage, but the one of even greater challenge.

Ancient stages of discipleship
The ancient church seemed to be familiar with these stages, and trained new believers to face them.  We see this in an ancient pattern of discipleship written down by Hippolytus in the early Third Century AD.
According to Hippolytus, the first-stage Christians were called Seekers or Inquirers—people who sought to know Christianity, and whether or not they should commit themselves to it.  When Seekers committed, they were welcomed into the fellowship.[9]
Then the Seekers became Learners, or Catechumens.  The learner studied the faith for approximately three years.[10]  Not until this process had been completed was the new believer baptized and offered the Lord’s Supper.  This time period was not set, but was determined by the individual rate of progress of the student.  St. Augustine was catechized by Anselm of Milan for slightly over a year before his baptism.[11]
At the end of this catechesis, the learners briefly became Kneelers, or mystagogues.[12]  This lasted only about six weeks and was marked by prayer, vigils, and fasting.[13]  Ordinarily, all baptisms were done on Easter Sunday at daybreak.  From that time on, they were considered fully mature disciples.[14]
Becoming a disciple was not the end of the process, however.  The new believers were then initiated into the deeper teachings of the faith by the bishop—teachings not given to seekers or learners.  Hippolytus calls these teachings the “white stone of revelation.”[15]  Hippolytus does not reveal these teachings but infers that they were theological mysteries not given to initiates, but only to the mature.
Hippolytus never suggests that the seekers or learners were not believers.  On the contrary, they were included in most meetings as well as in the agape, or love feast, where they were given bread from the hand of the bishop, though they were not allowed to take the cup.  This process of spiritual formation was not intended just to prepare them for eternal life, but to equip them to withstand persecution, which the church presumed would be coming later.
Let us compare Hippolytus’ pattern with the others in table 4.
Table 4.  Stages of Christian life adding ancient church model

Repentance
New Birth

Eternity
John
Children
Young Men

Fathers
Paul
Carnal


Spiritual
Psalms
Seeker
Servant

Settler
Ancient church
Seeker
Learner
Kneeler
Disciple