Showing posts with label spirituality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spirituality. Show all posts

Saturday, August 11, 2012

The dry soul


Since this April, I have diligently pursued the spiritual disiciplines.  Since then, I have noticed a difference in my walk with God.   I have gained much more insight into many areas of faith. My latest writing project, The  Faith Matrix, my workbook  Prayer- the Adventure,  as well as my course on spiritual disciplines have all grown out of this interest.   God continues to open up new ideas in this area, and I hope soon to write about ideas that may tie it all together. 
One thing I am finding, though is  that spiritual disciplines are not easy.  Just as your body gets tired from exercise, and your mind gets tired from study, your spirit can get tired from  seeking God. The spiritual life is no bed of roses.  It involves a lot of down and dirty wrestling with sin,  judgementalism,  impure motives, and a host of other problems.
There's a famous painting called The Temptation of St Andrew. He was one of the first hermits  in church history.  He's sitting on a rock praying, and all around him are hosts of devils of every kind, trying to tear him away. I haven't been a hermit,  but even  at home, trying to pray, I have experienced a few of their brothers bothering me. 
The hardest part prayer is when you seek some experience of God, and come up dry. Some times He seems to be right at your shoulder. Other times,  your prayers seem to be careening off the ceiling. 
I try to think of what to do. Maybe I should get my guitar and sing. Maybe I should just read more, pray harder,  study a little deeper, get quieter, etc.  But none of this works. There seems to be nothing I can do.  Nothing.
As unpleasant as it is to be separated from the feeling of God,  though, there is one good part.  When I realize that there is nothing I can do, I also realize that there is nothing I need to do.  We are not promised heavenly bliss all the time, nor that we will have ecstatic experiences. If it  happens,  then good. If not--well, so what?
The greatest danger in these dry spells is losing our focus. My focus shouldn't be on what feels right, but on what is right.  Faith is not in a feeling, it's in God.  Sometimes  God takes away the feeling so I can learn to trust Him.  
When my kids were younger, we'd go on a trip, and they would pepper me with questions.  "How much farther?" they would ask.  "Where are we now?" I'd give them the road atlas.  "What state is this?" they would say.
I don't blame them for being curious, but after a while, it could be annoying.  I would want to shout to the back seat  "If you're not driving, you don't need to know!"    If God is in control of my life, then why do I need to know what happens next?   Could it be that I don't fully trust him?   I want constant reassurance because My faith is not what it should.  The only way it can improve is to sit back and allow God to reveal Himself when and how He wants to.  He knows my need for His presence and He will show Himself when I need it. 
Even when I am a dry soul, I'm God's.  Even when I don't feel Him, I can believe  in  Him.  The feelings may come later.  I can trust Him today. 

Friday, August 3, 2012

What is Faith For?



From 1989 to 1993, I served as a volunteer hospice chaplain in Florida. I did it, in part,  for my own education. I wanted to know what happens to people while they are dying.  Do people turn to God in their dying process?  Do they become depressed and discouraged, or do they find new hope.
I discovered some surprises.  People behave different ways.  Some people turn to God, others do not.  Sometimes the people who have been most religious in life have the hardest time dying,  and some people who have had no faith in God face it with relative ease.  Clearly there is a difference between having faith and having religion.  Many who claim to live by faith do not. Many who think the have no faith do.
To answer why this can be, we have to look a little bit deeper at the question of faith--not what faith is but what faith does in inside of us. What role does faith play in our ordinary lives?  . 
 Imagine a triangle composed of three parts—body, mind, and spirit.  The body is our physical side--our needs, appetites, and desires associated with the body.  It is how we connect to the physical world.  The mind is our non-physical side. It is how we connect with the world of other people—our social and psychological self--our moods, lusts, ambitions, and insecurities.  The spirit is our faith side. It is the values, beliefs, loves, and desires for something outside ourselves that is not physical pleasure of social position.  It is how we connect with the Holy Spirit.  Tillich called it the Ultimate.   Faith is what causes us to make the value decisions of life. ·     
 Suppose you have a serious medical condition and you must endure a great deal of pain and suffering to get better. You might not get better at all. .  But why should you endure? Why try to stay alive?
 Suppose you and your wife are having marital problems.  You think about leaving, and so does she. But you don’t leave.  You stay and work out your problems.  Why?
·Suppose you feel a call to the mission field.  You are called to leave our work, your home, and family and go to the other side of the world.  Why should you go?   These are faith decisions.  They have to do with what we think is ultimately important.
Our faith is our reason to live. Our faith is our reason to die. Our faith is why we persevere in the face of trouble. It is also why we surrender our will to the will of God. It is how we answer the ultimate questions of life---who am i?  Why am I here?  Why should I go on?
Not everyone  has a solid foundation on which to make life decisions. Many people do not know why they are here, or what they are living for. They just stumble through life from one accident to another.  Oh, they may have beliefs, but they don’t trust They believe in God, they have just never learned to trust God.  Paul said
 Just because you have belief in God, doesn’t mean you are living by faith.  Your beliefs and faith don’t necessarily connect. 
A person can have faith in something without belief. There are many people who are Star Wars of Star Trek fanatics, who organize their lives around conventions celebrating made-up stories, who try to copy the morals and ethics of these imaginary worlds,  yet do not believe they are true.
A person can have belief without faith. We can believe in bigfoot or Roswell aliens, without having any effect on how we live our lives.
But Christianity requires faith as well as belief. Our true faith is what we build out life upon, not what we say to be true. 
Is Christ the basis for your life?  Or is He a mere belief?
 In times of trouble, many people find that their faith is not strong enough to hold them.  Faith that is not developed and exercised cannot prepare us for the tough questions of  life. 
These people are afflicted with one of three faith diseases—
They have a misplaced faith.  Misplaced faith is when we think we believe in one thing but actually have faith in something else.  We think we have faith in God, but our lives are actually about having faith in ourselves. 
The human heart is deceptive.  We may say we live for the God’s glory. but actually live for something else. 
For such a person, the greatest gift God can give them is disillusionment. When we come to understand that we cannot trust anyone, not even ourselves, then we may be on our way to trusting the Lord. 
They have a mixed faith.  They have faith in God part of the time, but it is so combined with other things that it is not solid.  It is a foundation of iron and clay,  unstable at its base.    
Proverbs 3:5-6 says “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not upon your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path.”
The person with mixed faith trusts God in some things. He may trust God to get to heaven, but he dare not trust God to put food on the table, so he feels he has to steal to do it.  He may trust God on Sunday, but he cannot trust God to satisfy his needs for enjoyment and satisfaction in life. For that reason, he turns to sex or alcohol.  We can trust God for our eternal future, but cannot trust God for our retirement, so we hoard as much money and goods as we can. 
If we are to trust God, we have to do it all the way.
They have a mini-faith. Their understanding of faith is just too small and too poorly developed to withstand the troubles of the day.  Child-like faith is not the same as childish faith. Faith must grow in complexity and understanding beyond childhood if we are to meet the needs of the adult world. 
Many Christians have a “bumper-sticker” faith.  We know the slogans--
“Jesus saves.”  Saves from what?  Does it just mean hell, or does it mean something else?.
“Let Go and Let God.”  Sounds great. But how do I do that?  How can I let go, when my thoughts are in such turmoil.  If I still feel worried does that mean I am not letting go?
“Prayer changes things.”  Prayer changes things, but sometimes things get worse after I pray.  How do I cope with unanswered prayer?
“What would Jesus do?” Well—what would Jesus do?
These slogans are not really answers.  They are just starting points for deeper study.. 
If our faith is to really have an impact on life, then we cannot just push the same old platitudes. We must dig deeper and not stop until we get them. This is not easy. It requires work, effort, and study. But it can be done. 
Jesus told us about two houses, one  build on the rock, and the other on sand. An adequately prepared faith is the rock of our lives.  An inadequately prepared rock is the sand.  If we build our faith on the rock, it will last. 
If not, it will fall.  Faith is like that. Real faith in Jesus will hold us up in anything.  Misplaced faith, mixed faith, or mini-faith is like sandy soil under a big house. It is just not adequate for the job.
 

Sunday, June 24, 2012

Grace and Habit


I cannot remember when I first learned what we Presbyterians call "the doctrines of grace."  I only remember that it was a tremendous relief when I did.   The "doctrines of grace" is the knowledge that God loves me just the way I am, that He showed it  by dying on the Cross for me, even when I didn't deserve it. I don't have to prove anything to God for Him to love me--He already does. I don't have to choose Him--He chose me.  I don't have to be good enough to earn His favor--He already is better than good enough for both of us.  His  death on the Cross gave me complete forgiveness for everything I've done wrong, and for those unfortunate,  wayward tendencies which make up so much of my psyche. God is a forgiving Father, who keeps taking me back no matter how much I embarrass Him, or fail His instructions.  He loves me, and that is a good thing.
The doctrines of Grace liberates me from shame and the from the tyranny of perfectionism.  God simultaneously sets the bar of perfection too high for me to reach and acceptance too low for me to miss it.    In this, God is like my wife who loves me even when I act like a jerk and dress like a hobo.  Her love is not  affected by my many failures, and neither is God's.
Yet as satisfying as grace may be, there remains a nagging disquietude.  Deep down, I'm not that good of a guy.  I may be forgiven, but that doesn't make me  right.
The grace, at least as it is sometimes understood, is that it gets at the punishment but not the cause.  Sure we are forgiven, but are we changed?  Suppose I were an alcoholic, and God were to say me " That's okay, son. I forgive you for drinking,"   That would be good, but I can still be a slave to drinking.  Even if my drinking had no direct punishment, it could till wreak havoc on my life.  Forgiveness, however wonderful, is no answer without  change.
This sets up a conundrum. If our relationship with God demands change, that implies there must be a standard of living, a law, that defines the way ought to live.  If there is a law, then I am under it. If I am under it, then I ought to be ashamed and feel guilty when I break it. I cannot be guilty and not guilty at the same time.  How, can grace and the Law coexist?   Yet they do coexist somehow. 
More specifically,  how can I both believe in doing the right thing, and believe I don't have to do the right thing?  How can we  live with God, ourselves and others, seeking to please Him, yet failing at every turn to do it right?
I cannot say that I  have fully grasped intellectually or experientially this paradox, but I can say that may have found a way around it that preserves my freedom and leads me to live a better life
 It lies in the habits of the heart.
Most of what we do in life we never think very little about. We do them automatically by learned instinct. This  ability of human beings to do repetitive tasks or to make repetitive judgments is called habit.  Habits carry the force of momentum in the mind--if we don't make a conscious effort to stop, we just keep doing them.  We act by habit without paying attention.  That is the purpose of habits, to relieve our conscious mind of constant decision making by creating a bank of premade decisions. 
Habits do not always happen by accident. We can make or break habits by the repetition of the same small decision over and over.  Have devotions three or four days in a row, and it starts a habit.  Oversleep for three or four days in a row, and that becomes a habit, too.
 Some habits are positive,  such as kissing your wife good morning, while some are negative, such at overeating,  gambling, or pornography.  Once they are formed, they draw us  like iron to a magnet. 
Habits frequently supersede the intentions of our heart.  They are, like Paul said, another law in our bodies, drawing us to do thing our spirit says we should not do. 
Habits are in many ways are the opposite of laws.
Laws are imposed from outside--habits exist on the inside. Laws are hard to keep--habits are hard not to keep.  Laws are enforced by shame--habits are enforced by momentum. Laws are more of a burden the more we have--habits  are easier to follow the more we have. Laws demand perfection--habits are about inclination.
Habits are like gravity. Whether or not we defy them, they are still there, pulling us in one direction or another. 
Laws can become habits.  For example, we may be in the habit of buckling our seat belts when we get in the car,  when we also know it is the law we do so. Once we get in the habit, we no longer worry about obeying .  Once a law becomes a habit, it no longer becomes a burden. 
The intention of the Law was to help us develop of the right kind of habits.  We my no longer need to be told not to kill, because  we do not want to kill. We no longer need to be told not to steal, because we don't want what other people have.  We  may not be under the threat of punishment, but we still need to make good habits instead of bad ones.
This pursuit of good habits is purely personal.   Failure in habits, at least at first,  is to be expected, but it doesn't need to stop us from trying.  We don't stop trying to develop good eating habits because we overindulged in a meal last week. We just get up and try again.  We don't stop talking to God because missed devotions one morning--we just try again. 
Whether we are trapped in bad habits or failing at good habits, there is no habit which cannot be changed with God's help.  Paul says that there is no sin which is not common to us, but God will with each temptation give us a way of escape, so that we may be able to bear it.  With God's help we can break every binding habit. 
I am grateful for God's universal forgiveness in my life. I am also grateful that He can help me develop positive change though positive habits .   The struggle for  sanctification is a struggle to develop new habits. Change our habits and we change ourselves.

Sunday, April 29, 2012

What;s Right With the Church, What's Wrong With It, and How to Fix it


The other night, I attended a banquet where the featured speaker was a well known local radio personality,  who is on a one-man crusade against the organized church.  Although a committed Christian,  he has been so burned by the organized church that he rails against it on a regular, weekly basis. 
After the banquet we fell into a long conversation.  To my surprise I found myself agreeing with most  of what he had to say.  Although my experiences have been slightly more positive than his,  much of what he says is true.  Christ's church has ceased to be an organism and has become an organization,  with all the political and material demands of being an organization.  The church as it exists on earth has to deal with money,  power,  and appearances, which means it is continually falling into corruption, greed, and power politics.  It has become for many a bureaucracy of the soul,  a Department of Motor Vehicles with better music.
If you are reading this and saying "Yes, that is true for the church down the street, but not mine." Think it over.  Who says that a small church cannot be just as impersonal and  vain as a big one, or that a church which flees the trappings of traditional spirituality cannot get caught up in the same machinations that sapped the life out of the medieval church? Do we really think Presbyterians or Baptists are so pure of heart that they cannot forget why they rebelled against the Catholics in the first place, and become like them in Spirit if not in appearance?  American churches often remind me of soccer clubs in other countries,  voluntary organizations which seem to exist to compete against other organizations for bragging rights to the city.  For the truly lost and truly hurting, the church is often just one more building on the street, between the bar and the Walmart.
But for all its faults, the church has got a lot of things right, and we need to acknowledge it.  
First of all it has God on its side.  The church is still the only organization dedicated to getting out God's Word and leading people into a relationship to Him.  Can you think of another organization capable of leading people to a better life?   I can't.  Winston Churchill once said that democracy was a very bad form of government, but that all the others are so much worse.  The same can be said of the church.  Education,  entertainment,  publishing, mass media and all the other institutions that form modern society are infinitely worse, and every bit as hypocritical.   How does  government (for example) have the gall to say "we're here to help you," when everyone knows they are here to buy votes, so our elected officials can have great influence and get fat pensions.  Or how does the news  media--any news media-- have the nerve to say they are here just to report the news objectively? 
No, all of human society is corrupt, to one degree or another.  Where there is the potential for corruption, corrupt people will go. But that is a long way from saying that churches are only here to be corrupt.   A horse has a purpose and it has flies, but it does not exist for the flies.  Churches are sinful and corrupt as well, but they do not exist for that purpose alone.  When we scrape away the dirt of the world,   underneath there are still congregations of ordinary people who love God and one another, read the Bible,  and do the best they can to live clean in a dirty world.  Like a dirty child, underneath that disheveled mess  is something  beautiful and worthy of praise,  which the world cannot fully drive way, and the gates of hell cannot prevail against.

But my friend is right.  The church is deeply flawed, mainly because if has forgotten it's initial purpose.  What went wrong with the church is that it forgets that we are not of this world, and  relies on worldly programs rather than heavenly realities.  We lose our focus on heaven and  look after earthly things. Then we become obsessed with keeping our institutions running.  We pay big money for things we do not need, in order to put  on an attractive and prosperous image.  Then we must maintain that image at all cost, and we lose our passion for God.  We are a real Body of Christ though--we just act phony.
Look at the architecture of a typical church.  They are designed to create the illusion of  transcendence--high ceilings,  high pulpits,  and stained glass windows that are intended to make us look holy and grand.  If a person  dressed with such grandiloquence, we would call them pompous.  Modern churches who deliberately avoid such "churchy" designs do the same thing with  lighting tricks,  video screens and smoke machines.  All this is intended to fool the eye, and make it seem as if God were there, whether He is or not.  When you think about it, it isn't much different from a witch doctor putting on a wicker mask and dancing around a village.  We pretend to a greater intimacy with God than we actually have.
Ultimately, there is no cure for the institutional church. Those who try, wind up recreating it in some other form somewhere else.  There is, however a cure for those who are inside it.
First, we  can stop being phonies.  Let us admit that we do not have all the answers, that we are still looking for God's will, struggling to live out our faith as best we can.  There is no point in condemning our leaders, just as there is no point in following them blindly.   Let's all just be honest and open to the Spirit.  We don't know all there is to know about God, but we can seek Him.
 Second, we can quit substituting programs, which do not work, for relationships.  Jesus taught his disciples to love the lost, not develop marketing strategies. 
Third, we can love one another.  Jesus told Peter to tend His sheep, not fleece them.  Let's care more about one another as people rather than what they can do for the church.  Then maybe we'll actually start looking and acting like Jesus' church.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Meat and Milk: Spiritual formation in Mature Believers, Part 3


The Function of Faith
So how do we maintain spiritual health throughout our lives, in the face of opposition?
Faith is the key—not an idle or casual faith, the kind Bonheoffer called “cheap grace,” but faith that is foundational to our existence, our reason to be.  If we are to grow past the point of spiritual reproduction, we must grow in our experience of Christ through faith.
Faith performs eight basic functions:
  1. intellectual challenge;
  1. emotional engagement;
  1. behavioral reinforcement
  1. supportive relationships;
  1. higher authority;
  1. life interpretation;
  1. connection to history;
  1. and a realistic hope.

A healthy faith system will involve all eight of these functions in a consistent, interrelated whole.  Many people, believer and nonbeliever alike, derive these eight functions from more than one source.  They may, for example, intellectually accept the doctrines of Christianity, but receive their emotional engagement from music, sports or entertainment.  They might experience an emotional high, but separate their faith from their intellectual life, becoming emotionally Christian, but intellectually brain dead.  Or to give another example, they may seek their community in worldly friendships, while going through the motions of Christian ritual.  When these eight functions are divided, we become practical polytheists, looking to a pantheon of worldly gods to cover up the deficiencies in our relationship to the true God.  Sooner or later, however, we will discover we cannot serve two masters.  In a time of crisis, divided faith cannot stand.
Let us look at these eight tasks of faith one by one.

(1)Intellectual challenge.
  There is a mistaken assumption that just listening to preaching or going to Sunday school will give the mature Christian all the spiritual answers he or she needs.  We may have the answers, but the questions keep coming.  If we rely on simplified versions of spiritual answers, and do not exercise our minds, we will be ill equipped to respond to the new situations life constantly puts before us.
Not all Christians are intellectuals, but all Christians are sometimes expected to justify and rejustify what they know to be true.  Every mature believer should be challenged to understand theological issues and have a comprehensive knowledge of the Bible.  Without these, the mature believer becomes ineffective in his own self-examination and in discerning how to counsel others.  Most Sunday schools and cell groups are not intended for this kind of study but for fellowship, worship, and many other things.  Christian churches need to rethink their curricula when it comes to the needs of mature believers.

(2) Emotional Engagement. 
David Goleman in his book Emotional Intelligence points out that emotional sensitivity rather than intellectual abilities are the best predictors of success.[22]  Goleman writes that the portion of the brain governing our emotions is much larger than the portion devoted to reason, that the path from the intellect to the emotion is like a cow path while the path from the emotions to the intellect is like a four lane highway.[23]  The heart influences the head more than the head influences the heart.  It does little good to strengthen our faith intellectually unless we concurrently deepen our passion for God.  Just as a relationship between a husband and wife becomes complacent, so does our relationship with Christ.  We need to be challenged to deepen our emotions toward God, just as we must with our spouses.
One only has to read the writings of the great intellectuals of the faith such as Luther, Calvin, the Puritans, St. Augustine, and St. Thomas Aquinas to see that these men were as passionate in their writings on God as the wildest Pentecostal or Charismatic.  The deeper our emotional attachment the greater our intellectual understanding is likely to become.

(3) Behavioral reinforcement. 
Perhaps the greatest contribution behavioral psychology has given to the world is to demonstrate the link between action and emotion.  We do not just smile when we are happy; smiling makes us happy.  We do not just react angrily when we are upset; shouting gets us more upset.  The things we do and the rituals we follow reinforce our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.  The church’s emphasis on the “means of grace” helps us to deepen and enhance our relationship to God.  As James wrote “faith without works is dead.”[25]  Inward faith without outward behavior quickly disappears.   
Behavioral reinforcement of spiritual beliefs take three forms—inner disciplines, outer rituals, and the practice of a Christian lifestyle.
Inner disciplines include prayer, fasting, Bible study, confessing, meditating, praising, and silence.  Donald Whitner says “God’s people have always been a spiritual people.  . . . I have never known a man or woman who came to spiritual maturity except through spiritual discipline.”[27]
Outer rituals are practiced publicly in God’s house among God’s people.  The early church devised a wide variety of corporate disciplines—morning prayers, evening prayers, regular times of fasting, the Eucharist, confession, weekly worship, prayers before meals, family devotions, liturgy, litanies, and benedictions.  They enable us to fulfill the Scriptural command to “pray without ceasing”—not prayer every moment of every day, but prayer regularly performed throughout the days, weeks, and years.
Rituals and spiritual disciplines though are meaningless without a Christian lifestyle.  A Christian lifestyle is not defined so much by what we do not do, but by what we do.  Refraining from sexual immorality, intoxicants, gluttony, greed and sloth may fulfill the commandments of the Old Covenant, but it does not rise to the level of the New.  Loving others, feeding the poor, sharing our faith, showing compassion for our neighbor and turning the other cheek are the heavier duties that Christ called His disciples to perform.  Ethical Christian behavior is absolutely necessary for Christian maturity.

(4) Supportive Relationships. 
If there is one overwhelming deficiency in our cybernetic world, it is for intimate community.  We need a community that stirs us each to deeper spiritual expression.  Mature believers need to be with people who can nourish and encourage them while they in turn encourage others.  As Bonheoffer famously said, “Let him who cannot be alone beware of community. . . . Let him who cannot be in community beware of being alone.”[28]
Being in a church, even serving in a church, is not the same as being in community.  Many of us serve on boards and committees so pointless and soporific that St. Peter himself would no doubt repeat his weakness at Gethsemane and once again fall asleep.  Churches are often the worst place to discuss struggles.  Even in churches with a well-functioning small group ministry, only a portion of the church are involved in small groups.

(5) Life interpretation. 
Faith equips us to interpret our life story.  Whether our lives are on an upward slope or a downward slide depends entirely on which direction is up or down.  Whether our history is the work of a benevolent God working all things for good or whether it is a random accident determines our life course in the future.
The only way to know and interpret our story is to tell that story.  We must put it into words.  The simple act of talking or writing about events helps us to come to terms with them.
In 1 Samuel 7:12, after God routed a Philistine army bent on Israel’s destruction, the people of Israel erected a stone monument to the occasion, calling it “Ebenezer”—“thus far has the Lord helped us.”  A testimony is a similar memorial in our hearts, reminding us of the goodness of God in the past, which He has promised will continue in the future.  Mature believers should be encouraged to remember their personal past, so they may remain steady in the future.

(6) Connection to history.
The church that ignores the past also cuts itself off from the present.  The church may be faithful to the Scriptures (which is a product of the past), but its understanding has become disconnected and disjointed from the great thinkers of the past.  It need not hide from history by concealing denominational connections, or throwing out every tradition.  Believers need to understand their roots so they can understand where they belong.
We stand on the shoulders of giants, Sir Isaac Newton once famously observed. Connecting to history is a primary task of faith.  We need to understand how we fit into the historic continuum.  History assures us of our place in the universe.
Older believers are often upset by the rapid change in society.  We should not be—change is a part of life.  But if change does not help us reinterpret the past, it will be involuntary and unwelcome.  Taking time to provide mature believers with a historical perspective will make change more palatable and manageable.

(7) Unquestioned authority. 
For us to build and maintain a personal world view, we must have some authority we deem to be true.  Faith gives us something to believe and follow without question or compromise.
The rapid decline of the mainline church is not due to its unwillingness to change, but to its denial of its past authority.  The church must stand firm on what it believes, and stick by it.
The real issue is not authority so much as submission.  Christ gave us an example of voluntary submission.  He submitted Himself to the Father willingly and joyfully.  He submitted out of love.  Paul submitted himself to the corrupt authorities of the Roman empire and the Jewish establishment by choice, not by force.  In Romans 13, he encouraged Christians to submit to the Roman empire out of choice.
It is counter intuitive but nevertheless accurate to say that only unquestioned authority allows us to freely pursue what is greatest in life.  Scientists cannot do research without believing in empirical evidence.  A high court cannot question the standards of a lower court without some basis in constitutional law.  A grammarian cannot grade papers unless she regards dictionaries and grammar textbooks as authoritative.  The constitution may need changing and grammar textbooks may need to be rewritten, but until they are we need them.  We could not function without authoritative standards.  A church which does not speak with authority cannot provide a solid foundation for individual faith development in its members.

(8) A realistic hope.

The eighth work of faith is to assure us of a worthwhile future, making the struggles and privations of this world capable of being borne.  Without positive hope, positive change is not possible.  If we cannot expect a positive outcome for our labors, we will cease to labor.
Hope does not have to be a positive outcome for us personally.  A terrorist may blow himself up out of hope for seventy virgins in heaven, or he may do it out of hope of starting a political movement that will usher in a new Communist state.  A philanthropist may give money to be rewarded in heaven, or to make the future world better.  Either way, we do what we do for hope of something better.
For Christians to be balanced and healthy spiritually, we must take into consideration all eight of these works of faith in our lives.  As a church, we must make sure to meet these needs and to equip Christians to meet these needs for themselves.  If we want the church to be healthy, then believers of all stages—new, young, and old,—must be equipped for a lifetime of Spiritual growth and development.

Summary
The track of an individual Christian’s spiritual life is unique, but there are common stages along the way.  Seekers are new believers, who have just come to trust Jesus.  Learners or catechumens are those who are developing as believers, discovering their spiritual gifts, and discovering God’s direction for their lives.  Mature believers are Christians who have a sense of God’s vision for their lives, and are seeking to follow Him in a complicated, challenging world.
Historically the evangelical church has done a better job with the discipleship of new believers than they have with maintaining the spiritual health of mature ones.  By treating all believers the same, the church may either fail to reach new people, or sustain the old ones.  Christian discipleship programs aimed at leading new believers into maturity leave the mature believer desiring more.
Mature believers need to be challenged to go deeper into the faith, instead of repeating the same teachings again and again.  This challenge needs to come through eight aspects of faith—intellectual challenge, emotional expression, rituals and habits, intimate community, life interpretation, a connection to history, definite authority, and a realistic hope.
Clearly, maintaining our spiritual lives in maturity cannot be forced from without; it must be pursued individually with all zeal.  Nevertheless, the church must provide opportunities for continued spiritual growth, while not forsaking the lost, or ignoring the discipleship of the young.  The church must have a multi-leveled approach to discipleship.  Though this may be difficult, with God’s grace and the Spirit’s help it can be done.

[1] I John 2:12-15.  All Biblical quotations will be from the NIV unless otherwise noted.)
[2] I John 2:1,2:28,  3:18, 4:4, and 5:21.
[3] Jameson, Faucett, and Brown Commentary, electronic database, copyright 1997 by Biblesoft.
[4] (Biblesoft's New Exhaustive Strong's Numbers and Concordance with Expanded Greek-Hebrew Dictionary. Copyright (c) 1994, Biblesoft and International Bible Translators, Inc.)
[5] Ibid.
[6] I Cor 3:1-4 NKJV
[7] Strongs, op. cit.
[8] Author, Mapping the Christian Life, (RevPress, Bilouxi, Mississsippi), 2008, pp.  ix-xi.
[9] Geoffrey J Cuming  Hippolytus:  A Text For Students: (Grove Books, LTD.,Bramcote, Nottingham,England,1987), p. 16.  
[10] Ibid.
[11] The Confessions of St. Augustine, trans. By E. M. Blaiklock, (Thomas Nelson,Nashville, Tnn.) 1986, pp. 220-221.
[12] Hipplolytus, p 18.
[13] This is the probable beginning of the tradition of Lent.
[14] Hippolytus, op. cit. p. 19.
[15] Ibid.
[16] Rick Warren, The Purpose Driven Church, (Zondervan, Grand Rapids, Mi.) 1995, p. 130.
[17] Adapted from Marks of a Disciple, by Lorne C. Sanny, © 1975 by The Navigators. The complete booklet is available from NavPress at: www.navpress.com
[19] Billygrahambookstore.org
[20] Matthew 28:19-20
[21] James Sire, Habits of the Mind (Intervarsity Press, Downers Grove, Ill) 2000, p. 27-28.
[22] Daniel Goleman Emotional Intelligence (Bantam Books, New York, 1997, p. 35.
[23] Ibid.  p. 19
[24] Peter Scazzero The Emotionally Healthy Church, (Zondervan, Grand Rapids, Mi.) 2003,  P. 19.
[25] James 2:20
[26] Richard Foster The Celebration of Discipline (Harper One, New York) 1978, p. 7. 
[27] Donald Whitner Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life (Navpress, Colorado Springs, Col.) 1991, p. 17.
[28] Dietrich Bonhoeffer Life Together (Harper & Row, New York) 1954, p. 77.
[29] Michael W. Foss Power Surge (Fortress Press, Minneapolis, Minn.) 2000, p. 146.
[30] C. S. Lewis Surprised by Joy (Harcourt, Brace, and Company, New York) 1955, p. 7.

Meat and Milk: Spiritual Formation in Mature Believers, Part 2


This is the second part of a three part post taken from a lecture in the Voices of New Life Series.  If you haven't seen the first one, you might look at it before reading this one. 

Modern Stages of the Christian Life
Modern discipleship differs from that of the ancient church in two significant places.  First, baptism is either performed in infancy or at conversion, not after an extended period of catechesis.  Because catechesis is performed either before baptism or not at all, many are baptized who never grasp the full significance of the faith, or the duties that are connected to the faith.  Second, when actual training is done, it is presumed to be complete in a relatively short period of time.  The contemporary church has programs for study and enrichment, but they are generally without a formal goal or direction.  Seekers, learners, and disciples learn together with the same material.  As a result, the seekers often are at a loss to understand what is happening, while the mature believers find it difficult to stay alert.  It is a “one-size-fits-all” approach to discipleship.
Modern church discipleship, when it is attempted at all, is a relatively short-term process, aimed at developing productive believers who serve the institutional church We hurry disciples though the steps at a pace the early church would consider insanely fast, turning out like-minded believers like cars off an assembly line.
One of the best and most effective examples of modern Christian discipleship comes from Rick Warren’s book The Purpose Driven Church.[16]  Warren uses a baseball diamond model to illustrate his church’s disciple making process.  The bases represent knowing Christ, growing in Christ, Serving Christ, and Sharing Christ.  Moving through these four stages usually takes about two years.  Sharing Christ is the final stage and the apex of spiritual maturity.  At the end, the mature Christians are expected to evangelize and disciple others, and keep the chain going.
The Navigators, perhaps the best known and the most effective discipleship ministry in the contemporary church, has a wide variety of excellent materials for discipleship and Bible study.  Fruitfulness, in the form of making disciples, is generally considered the end of the discipleship road.  Lorne Sandy, former president of the Navigators, listed the three stages of Christian discipleship as Identified with Christ, Obedient to Christ, and Fruitful in Christ.[17]
Campus Crusade for Christ, founded by Bill Bright in 1951, uses eleven “transferable concepts”—“How to be sure you are a Christian,” “Experience God’s Love and Forgiveness,” “Be filled with the Spirit,” “Walk in the Spirit,” “Be a fruitful witness,” “Introduce others to Christ,” “Fulfill the Great Commission,” “Love by faith,” “Pray with Confidence,” “Experience the joy of giving,” and “Study the Bible effectively.”  Two transferrable concepts deal with assurance of salvation, two with the Holy Spirit, three with sharing, two with prayer and Bible study, one with love and one with stewardship.[18]  Each book is intended to be used in one or two weeks, for a total of between eleven and twenty-two weeks of discipleship—about six months.
Billy Graham Evangelistic Association has a four week Christian life and Witness course.  The final lesson of this course focuses on sharing the faith. [19]
Let us put Warren et. al. into the same rubric as the others.
Table 5.  Stages of Christian life with contemporary examples

Repentance
New Birth

Eternity

1 John 2
Children
Young Men

Fathers

1 Cor 3
Carnal


Spiritual

Mapping
Seeker
Servant

Settler

3rd C. Church
Seeker
Learner
Kneeler
Disciple

Warren et. al.
Knowing
Growing
Serving
Sharing


The last line of the chart demonstrates the difference between the modern evangelical understanding of Christian discipleship and the Biblical/historic/traditional understanding of discipleship.  Generally speaking, the discipleship of the evangelical church is directed at training people to share Christ and build up the immature believer.  Looking it in human terms, it would be like saying that the purpose of human existence is to have more babies.  While this is certainly a part of why we are here, that cannot be all.
This modern formula of spiritual formation is reflexive—that is, it is focused backwards upon itself.  We are not just called to make more disciples, but to make better ones.  If we only focus on the process of making more, and do not focus also on the process of making better disciples, then the quality of Christian discipleship will necessarily erode over time, and the church becomes more shallow and less effective.
The ancient church apparently believed that something more was necessary.  The mature disciples were trained in ways that were not even shared with the young.  Something was being passed down from mature believer to mature believer that was not part of the process of sharing.
This statement is not intended to suggest that the early church did not evangelize, or that we should not evangelize.  On the contrary we most emphatically should!  Nor am I suggesting that programs such as Warren’s, Billy Graham’s, and the Navigators’ are wrong or need to be corrected in their discipleship of new believers.  If there is a deficiency today, it is in the church’s deficiency to fully consider what mature discipleship entails.  It requires more than faith sharing, more tithing, more even than becoming good church members.  True discipleship means a whole life change and the maintenance of spiritual health for a lifetime.
The irony of our modern emphasis on making new members is that it has not worked.  No matter how much effort we put into evangelistic methods, the majority of our people never spiritually reproduce.  Even a highly effective evangelistic church draws more believers than unbelievers.  Christians who are supposed to be mature still cannot and do not share Christ.
The reason for our failure is not that we have not been told to share Christ, but that we have been told little else.  God requires Christians to press on to a deeper maturity.  In the Great Commission Jesus said:
“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.  And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."[20]

Going, making disciples, and baptizing are the first three stages of a four-stage process which also involves teaching people to behave like Jesus.  Our goal is not simply to produce new disciples but to produce better disciples—fully incorporated into the Body of Christ, trained to live as Christians, aware of the presence of God in their lives and capable of standing until the end of their age.

Meat and Milk: Spiritual Formation in Mature Believers, Part 1


Note: this is an article I am completing for a lecture series at New Life Seminary called Voices of New Life.  I am putting it out on my blog to get comments and reactions.  Please feel free to read and comment on it.  I welcome your opinions.

Introduction
The Christian walk of the Spirit is not easy to define or track.  No two people ever have the same spiritual journey, nor do they arrive at the same place in exactly the same way or the same time.  Our individual faith journeys are as unique as fingerprints or snowflakes.  We follow unique trajectories like water drops over a curved glass.  Nevertheless, there are enough similarities of experience among Christian Believers that a general path of spiritual formation may be described.  We all start in carnality and flow heavenward, following the path of grace and redemption.  Our similarities make it possible to help one another along the way.
The purpose of this study is first to trace that track of spiritual maturity from initial conversion to spiritual maturity using Biblical, historical and contemporary patterns.  This author hopes to demonstrate that Christian discipleship is often ignored by the contemporary church, and when it is practiced it focuses only on the initial stages of Christian growth—milk, not meat.  Then we will attempt to develop a model of spirituality that will adjust to the changing challenges of living out a mature spirituality in an increasingly challenging world.  It is this author’s hope that this model will assist us all to continually grow and strengthen our relationship to God through a lifetime spiritual journey.

Biblical Stages of Christian maturity
The New Testament shows at least two passages which clearly indicate stages of Christian maturity.  One is found in 1 John 2:12-14.  John mentions three stages of the Believers’ lives—children, young men, and fathers.
12 I write to you, dear children, because your sins have been forgiven on account of his name.
13 I write to you, fathers, because you have known him who is from the beginning.
I write to you, young men, because you have overcome the evil one.
I write to you, dear children, because you have known the Father.
14 I write to you, fathers, because you have known him who is from the beginning.
I write to you, young men, because you are strong, and the word of God lives in you, and you have overcome the evil one.[1]

John repeats the phrase “I write to you” six times.  The use of “because” (hoti) may also be rendered “that,” which would suggest that what follows is not the reason he is writing, but the subject.  “I write to you that you have known the father.  .  .” and so forth.  John is writing these words as a reminder to the church of what they need to know in these particular stages of Christian maturity.
Children should know the Father and that He has forgiven their sins.  Young men should know that they have already overcome the Evil One, are strong, and have the Word of God.  Fathers should continue to remember the One they already known from the beginning of their spiritual walk.
In the first instance, John uses the word teknia for “little children,” a word which he uses in other places for all Christians.[2]  We all know the Father.  In the second instance, he uses paideia, which means “infants,” specifically referring to those who are new Christians.[3]
“Young men” in Greek is neaniskoi, which literally means “new men.”  Culturally it might be used for a man up to the age of forty, someone who has attained some aspects of maturity, but not others.  A young person is on the way to maturity, but not fully arrived.[4]
Neaniskoi have proven themselves strong in the faith.  They have overcome Satan and have the Word of God living in them.  However, their hardest days are ahead of them.  Only now are they beginning to understand how difficult the Christian walk can be in a world of temptation and hostility.
“Fathers” have reached both reproductive and emotional maturity.[5]  They are involved in some aspect Christian service.  They are capable of sharing their faith and discipling others.  They can bear the burdens of others, while bearing their own.  Even so, they have to be reminded to stay in a relationship with God.  The first truth is the last truth—fathers must know God, as they did when they were children.
Table 1.  Stages of Christian life, 1 John 2
Repentance
New Birth                                                                                      Eternity

Children
Young Men
Fathers

In 1 Corinthians 3:1-4 Paul refers to two stages of the Christian life.
Brothers, I could not address you as spiritual but as worldly—mere infants in Christ.  I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it.  Indeed, you are still not ready.  You are still worldly.  For since there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not worldly?  Are you not acting like mere men?  For when one says, “I follow Paul,” and another, “I follow Apollos,” are you not mere men?[6]

In this passage, the two kinds of Christians are carnal and spiritual.  The carnal, or “babes in Christ” in Greek are the neepioi—a term also used figuratively for the simple-minded or immature.[7]  These neepioi are contrasted with the pneumatikos, or “spiritual”, who are the mature believers whose orientation is towards the Spirit and away from self.
The carnal believer attempts to live in two worlds with two sets of values.  As a result, the carnal believer does not do justice to either.  The carnal believer knows Christ, and the central teachings of the Gospel, but the focus of the carnal believer is on himself or herself.  This leads to jealousy and strife within the church.
Paul describes the carnal believer as living on the milk of the Word, not the meat.  Spiritual “milk” refers to teaching designed for elementary believers, which would include the basics of salvation, rudimentary doctrine, and elementary instruction in spiritual disciplines and moral behavior.  The carnal believer is not ready for advanced doctrinal or theological instruction, for advanced teaching in prayer and fasting, or for dealing with ethical dilemmas beyond his understanding.
Milk is essentially predigested food.  Just as a mother breaks down complex proteins and carbohydrates into an easily digestible, uniform liquid for infants, so have teachers and preachers already done the hard work of study, interpretation, and application.  They break down complex doctrines, simplify Bible study, and smooth out thorny commandments into simple rules.  Spiritual milk is nourishing but incomplete, containing what infants need to survive, but not what young men and fathers need to maintain mature health.  In time, the carnal believer will grow tired of this, but only when she ceases being carnal and becomes spiritual.
The relationship between John’s stages and Paul’s stages may be seen in table 2 below.  John and Paul cover similar ground.  Both divide Christians into mature and immature groups.  Reliance upon God is the necessary knowledge that leads to maturity.
Table 2.  John’s and Paul’s stages of Christian life

Repentance
New Birth
Eternity
1 John 2
Children
Young Men
Fathers
1 Cor 3
Carnal   

Spiritual

In the book, Mapping the Christian Life, there is a similar division discerned from a study of the psalms of degrees—Psalms 120-134.  The book lays out five divisions of the Christian life.  The first three stages parallel the stages found in John and Paul.  They are Seekers, Servants, and Settlers.
The Seeker stage begins with disillusionment with the world.  Seekers have discovered that the world they have known is not what it appears.  Like Neo in the film The Matrix, they have begun a journey to look for something real.  Seekers lift their eyes to the hills seeking help. That help comes not from the hills, but the Lord.  This begins the Seekers’ journey to God.
The task for each stage may be summarized in one burning question which must be asked and answered.  For Seekers that question is—can I trust God?
The second stage is Servants.  Servants have undergone a reversal in thought and have realized that God is not their servant, but that they are God’s.  The servant must answer another question—how can I serve God?
Settlers are mature believers who have come to understand, after a process of discovery, calling, and equipping; what kind of service they are to render.  They have a general idea what course of service their lives will take.  Nevertheless, like the settlers of America discovered when they tried to shape a new world on a new continent, knowing what they are to do and doing it are not the same.  It is difficult serving God in hostile territory.  The settler must balance family, work, and faith, while fighting temptations that in the Servant stage he would not have thought possible.  The question that Settlers ask is—how do I build the Kingdom in the face of opposition?[8]
Looking at John and Paul’s stages, as well this pattern from the Psalms, we see a strong similarity, as we see in Chart 3.
Table 3.  Stages of Christian life adding Psalms pattern

Repentance
New Birth
Eternity
John
Children
Young Men
Fathers
Paul
Carnal

Spiritual
Psalm Pattern
Seeker
Servant
Settler
There is an initial stage of discovery, a stage of growth, and a stage of maturity.  Maturity is not a resting stage, but the one of even greater challenge.

Ancient stages of discipleship
The ancient church seemed to be familiar with these stages, and trained new believers to face them.  We see this in an ancient pattern of discipleship written down by Hippolytus in the early Third Century AD.
According to Hippolytus, the first-stage Christians were called Seekers or Inquirers—people who sought to know Christianity, and whether or not they should commit themselves to it.  When Seekers committed, they were welcomed into the fellowship.[9]
Then the Seekers became Learners, or Catechumens.  The learner studied the faith for approximately three years.[10]  Not until this process had been completed was the new believer baptized and offered the Lord’s Supper.  This time period was not set, but was determined by the individual rate of progress of the student.  St. Augustine was catechized by Anselm of Milan for slightly over a year before his baptism.[11]
At the end of this catechesis, the learners briefly became Kneelers, or mystagogues.[12]  This lasted only about six weeks and was marked by prayer, vigils, and fasting.[13]  Ordinarily, all baptisms were done on Easter Sunday at daybreak.  From that time on, they were considered fully mature disciples.[14]
Becoming a disciple was not the end of the process, however.  The new believers were then initiated into the deeper teachings of the faith by the bishop—teachings not given to seekers or learners.  Hippolytus calls these teachings the “white stone of revelation.”[15]  Hippolytus does not reveal these teachings but infers that they were theological mysteries not given to initiates, but only to the mature.
Hippolytus never suggests that the seekers or learners were not believers.  On the contrary, they were included in most meetings as well as in the agape, or love feast, where they were given bread from the hand of the bishop, though they were not allowed to take the cup.  This process of spiritual formation was not intended just to prepare them for eternal life, but to equip them to withstand persecution, which the church presumed would be coming later.
Let us compare Hippolytus’ pattern with the others in table 4.
Table 4.  Stages of Christian life adding ancient church model

Repentance
New Birth

Eternity
John
Children
Young Men

Fathers
Paul
Carnal


Spiritual
Psalms
Seeker
Servant

Settler
Ancient church
Seeker
Learner
Kneeler
Disciple