We got to Joy's
family on Monday, and had a good time.
However, I noticed one odd thing about our conversations.
Almost all of our
conversations revolved around proving over and over again the same point.
Our conversation can be summarized in one sentence.
'It’s a small,
world, huh!'
Most of the
conversation was about hooking together people, places and things in unrelated places, and then being amazed at
the connection, however tenuous.
Witness the
following conversation:
'I met a man a the
store last night. He told me that he
used to live in Charlotte, North Carolina,
where you guys live. His name is
Bob. Maybe you know him. Small world, huh?"
'No, but Bob was my
brother's nephew's middle name. Never met him, though, I had heard
of him. Small world, huh?"
"Say, I had a
brother, too. He was named Wally. He was
Presbyterian. Small world,
huh?"
"Really? I once lived next to a Presbyterian
church. The pastor's name was Sheider or Shnieider, something like that.
Maybe you know him. Small world,
huh?"
"Can't say that
I have. But I wonder if he's part of the family that makes Shneider's Pretzels. I love those
things. I used to date a girl who ate
Schneider pretzels. If you're interested in pretzels, I can get you her number.
Small
world, huh?"
"Pretzels are
German, I think. One of our ancestors
was German, too. Small world, huh?"
"Really, I once owned a German shepherd. Small world,
huh?"
. . . And so it
goes.
Oh, the pleasant
days we have spent proving over and over
that it is a small, small world, finding connections between people over the
smallest things.
But really, the
world is not so small. It's big and wide and full of strange, unrelated
things. Whenever I travel, I am not
struck by the connections of life, but the infinite differences. No one person
is completely like another. No one
sees the world the same as another. We
are as unique as snowflakes.
Travel gives us the
chance to see the endless variety of the world. No two barns are the same, no
two trees are precisely alike. We can spend eternity describing the beauty of each
leaf on a single tree.
We enjoy
connections, but even more the
disconnections. The more we know about
the wonderful differences, the larger the world becomes.
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